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I met this guy last week at my college at a party, I asked him to dance and he said sure and soon enough we were talking and dancing. The next week I met him again at the same party and we also danced, only this time while we dance we began making out, and after he walked me home we made out again and then said goodnight to eachother.After making out with him would he see me as a sleaze, because I am actually looking for a solid relationship.

By: la_la_love

He is very complex. He is overprotective, reluctant to fall in love.
He is 5′ 7″, amber brown eyes, brown hair. intelligent witty. He’s funny and very handsome. He is very conflicted about many things in his life, most importantly his relationship with my main character Arianna. His mother left his father and this caused his father to become very depressed. He is worried to end up like his father and never wants to fall in love for fear of her leaving him. I need something for his name that is equal to Romeo and Juliet, like…Edward and Bella, Anne and Gilbert, Two soulmates that are meant to be together. I especially need help with his last name. Please somebody help me!

By: Aurora

My daughter (7 months) dad has put me through a lot of crap. He is basically living off my expenses and tries to keep my daughter a secret to HIS family. When she was born, I gave her father’s last name for her last name. Not too long ago, I called the relationship quits. Now he is trying to make my life a living hell and I still have to pay all the expenses (rent, diapers, baby food, food for myself, his and my laundry, etc.) Also, I have found out when applying for my daughter’s passport, that he is not a U.S. citizen (he only has his green card). Is there any way I can change my daughter’s last name without having his consent in agreement?

By: NaTiVe Nu_YoRka

I was reading something earlier that this girl wrote
quote:t is amazing how many girls on here are asking guys out…It is not going to last if you do. The biggest part of how a relationship starts out is the guy having to “chase” the girl. If the guy asks you out, it will be like something he earned, and he will treasure you. If you ask a guy out, it will show him that you are easily available and he will not respect you like he should.

If he truly likes you, he will ask you out. Don’t ask him out.”

I am not sure what to think of this. It made me scared ,if you have read my earlier post about “what to say when asking a guy out” because now i don’t think it will last or he thinks im playing around or something. Also what if we don’t last that long… n e ways what do you think of what she says guys? is it true? ♥!!!relationships don’t last as long when girls as guys out?!!!♥????

By: CHH Chicx

My fiance and i are getting married and he has a 2 yr old daughter from a previous relationship and i am adopting his daughter whom has no middle name and we are planning on giving her a middle name once i adopt her. I am pregnant with a little girl. We want a b middle name that flows well with her first name Kayla. the last is Coughlan very irish i know.

Sarah Brianne (the baby i am carrying)
the middle name must start with a B
Kayla B(help with middle name) Coughlan

By: Mommy to Kayla and Carys

so the “rules” of dating are kinda confusing. i have been on multiple dates since the breakup. however, i feel the pressure of *** is very high. is this normal?

By: jessthebest0417

I am in love with my longtime boyfriend who is Pakistani. I am Italian American and Hispanic. We are best friends and he always says he wants our relationship to last. We talk about marriage, but he is Muslim and his culture is very different from mine, but I accept his culture 100%. He mentioned converting to Islam, and I would be okay with that, I know a lot about Islam, I have done a lot of research and my first cousin is Muslim (she married a Muslim man).
I know my question might seem silly and/or naive, but I want to know what I should do to make it easier for his family to accept me. I’m an honest person and I love him very much.
Is there anyone who is in this situation? Anyone who is South Asian who can give me advice? What I should do? I would do anything for him, and I know he loves me too very much. Am I just worrying too much? Thank you!

By: Ms. Undergrad Student

So last night I was at a party, and let’s just say everyone had way too much to drink. I couldn’t see straight, and my girlfriend (of 2 years who I love very much) was throwing up in one of the bedrooms completely out of it.

Then all of a sudden I remember being up against the bathroom wall with this guy (Mark) who was making out with me. He kept telling me to kiss him, and being an idiot drunk I started kissing him back for about 1 minute and he felt up on me with our clothes on and everything until I told him to stop because I love my girlfriend and wouldn’t ever cheat on her. But since I was so drunk, I made out with him for a few times for a few minutes. I felt he had a hard-on, and I told him I was ***** and he said “let’s wait til everyone’s asleep”.

This guy (Mark was drunk, but still sober enough to know what was going on). I still don’t know how we started making out, but I didn’t let it go further and I told him I wasn’t going to throw my relationship away for him.

I love my gf so much and I feel so awful and I feel like a monster for what I did. I only told my gf that he kissed me in the bathroom, but then I pushed him away and said no, so my girlfriend isn’t mad at me.

Mark now has my number and is texting me. I think he got my number because he had my gf’s phone for awhile last night. I asked him what all happened last night and he didn’t text me back yet.

So can you give me any advice please, should I tell my gf, should I forget this ever happened? What should I tell this guy Mark about last night or should I talk to him???

I’m never going to get this wasted again so this won’t be a problem anymore. I just didn’t know my drinking limits last night and I feel like I got taken advantage of….
So should I tell my gf every single last bit and go into detail???

Oh and 10 points for best answers so give me some good answers!

By: Mel

so i have this friend who is a filipino and also a natural born american citizen. Anyway, as of 4 years ago, he now resides in the philippines under dual citizenship. He and his girlfriend of 2 years, who is a filipina (Philippines citizen with no US visa), plan to get married after he graduates this coming December. After wards, he wants to move back to California with her and her son (from a previous relationship). My question is: what are the exact steps that he will have to take in order to legally bring her and her son along with him to the states? Remember, she has no visa or pending petitions to immigrate to the states and neither does her child. Her child also carries the last name of his father. Anyway, what do you guys think he should expect after his marriage regarding immigration? and what will he have to do to accomplish this in the most convenient way possible? any help would be great! thanks!

By: jpac876

Saturday morming, my boyfriend of 5 years up and walked out. No answers. Just packed and left. We have 2 children together (4yo & 7months old). Sunday he came to see the kids (he is a great dad, so i will always have to see him because i would never keep the kids away from him, or even fight him for custody or anything. He’s great with them). He suggested we go to the park so our daughter could play and we could talk. He told me he couldn’t take the fighting anymore, and he was unhappy in the relationship because of it. He said he still cares about me, but that he needs time to think and figure things out. But he is NOT going to be with anybody else. And i believe that. Not because it’s what I WANT to believe. But because of the look in his eyes when he told me. We ended up having a great time at the park. And still have that very strong physical connection we had from the very beginning 5 years ago. We did NOT have *** though. But before he packed up and walked out on me, *** was like a chore. And affection was like unheard of with us. Well, he ended up dropping us off, and then going back to where he staying. So anyway…he came by again today after work to see the kids, and we sat down and had a very serious talk about all of this. The best talk we have ever had. No yelling, cursing, walking out, nothing. & then, of course, came that very strong physical part, and we ended up having ***. GREAT sex, the most passionate sex, it was like a love story…But, he left back to where he is staying. He called me a little while ago, and just wanted to say goodnight. He has turned into the sweetest person in just the last 3 days towards me. But before he left, we couldn’t stop arguing over STUPID things. So now my mind is so confused and I don’t know what to feel. 1 second I’m depressed & miserable & crying, and the next I’m so happy like a little *********** finding love for the very first time. It’s so weird. It’s kind of like we are “dating” all over again, and just trying to find where we went wrong I guess. There still is no guarantee if he will ever come back..but in the meantime, things are so great. Part of me wonders…am I setting myself up to be heartbroken all over again in the end when he decides NOT to come home? Or should I take the risk, and enjoy the time we have together, and maybe it will work out and he will come home and we will have a stronger relationship?

By: Confused W